UK based Nigerian medical doctor and
humanist Ijabla Raymond, is really angry with Nigerians over their
reactions to the recent leaked s*xtape of Miss Anambra,
Chidinma Okeke’s s*xtape. Read his unbelievable message to Nigerians below…
Chidinma Okeke’s s*xtape. Read his unbelievable message to Nigerians below…
one of those moments I feel ashamed to
be a Nigerian. I don’t understand why there is so much hysteria about
the leaked s*x video of a private citizen.
In my opinion, this should not make news
at all. There are far too many sanctimonious and judgmental people who
take it upon themselves to be morality police in this country. They
pontificate on how sinful s*x is yet they seek out the leaked s*x video
and all forms of p*rn on the internet.
The morality police turn a blind eye
when prepubescent girls are given out in marriage to men old enough to
be their grandfathers but as soon as consenting adults engage in
premarital or same S*x they start twitching.
How is it anybody’s business what two or
more consenting adults choose to do with their bodies if they are not
hurting a third party or forcing you to have s*x with them?
Do you want something really worthwhile
to talk about? Do you want to talk about something that every decent
person should be angry about? I will give you it.
Only this month, the Emir of Katsina
reportedly married a fourteen-year-old girl, assaulting her dignity and
innocence in the process but our society hardly took notice. Child-bride
marriage is so common in northern Nigeria that it is considered a
normal way of life.
This is a matter that has serious
consequences for the lives of young people. It should concern every
citizen because it destroys the lives of our children. It stops girls
from going to school to get an education, which in turn affects their
prospects of getting good jobs and becoming financially independent
later in life.
These girls are more likely to develop
abnormal connections between their v.ag!na, bl@dder, and rectum during
childbirth, which then causes them to become incontinent of feces and
urine. The resultant malodor very often leads to isolation and social
ostracism or even divorce by their husbands who simply marry the next
child-bride.
It is a lot of psychological trauma for
anybody to deal with let alone a teenage mother. These young mothers end
up begging on the streets when their elderly husbands divorce them.
Sadly, their children are left to the mercies of hostile step-mothers
and may end up as street beggars just like their unfortunate mothers.
The evidence shows that children born to
educated mothers have better outcomes than those born to teenage
mothers with no education or job. When you educate a woman you empower
the whole family and by extension the society.
Look around, and you will notice that
the most progressive and affluent societies in the world are the ones
that have educated and empowered their women.
It seems to me that the Nigerian society
is confused and has its priorities the wrong way round. Why are we
angry when adults (married or not, g!y or straight) engage in consensual
s*x but turn a blind eye when children are r@ped by adults in the name
of tradition?
As a secular humanist, I do not look to
any religious book or gods for morals. I apply reason, common sense,
judgment, and empathy in decision-making.
If two or more adults engage in
consensual s*x and this does not harm anybody then it is none of my
business. Period! I think our self-righteousness and propensity to be
judgmental come from religion.
Islam and Christianity condemn h0m0s*xuality and consensual s*x between unmarried adults but are silent on the matter of pedophilia.
Islam and Christianity condemn h0m0s*xuality and consensual s*x between unmarried adults but are silent on the matter of pedophilia.
Catholic priests have gained an ugly
notoriety for s*xually molesting young boys all over the world. The
prophet of Islam married a prepubescent girl when he was in his fifties
and many Muslims cannot be persuaded to abandon this practice.
Despite unparalleled religiosity, our
society is one of the most decadent in the world – we are almost always
near the top of the list of the most corrupt countries in the world.
Many Nigerian children endure years of
s*xual abuse by close relatives such as uncles, aunties, cousins,
house-boys, house-girls or family friends. To think some of these
perverts are now sitting in judgment over Miss Anambra and her friend is
nauseating and out rightly hypocritical.

What the fucking truth of the matter... Mind your business and move on... Chidinma okeke has done it and that's all... That's her life... Not yours... Thanks doctor
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