I have no respect for any woman who
could not keep her home. Countless other women out there are facing
worse issues in their homes yet they always remember that the success of
a marriage is 70% dependent on the woman.
For me I will blame Tiwa savage for
mishandling the issue, she has given the public gossip dose for the week
by exposing her husband and marriage. In marriage people have
weaknesses, and one person holds this marriage thing, a good partner
works on the weakness rather than craving for perfection. Yes Tee Billz
went too extreme with his tweets, if love was there Tiwa Savage would
have come up to just refute the accusations against her and family
rather than washing her husband in public.
Yes, the husband was very, wrong, for
those supporting Tiwa, are you alleging if you slap your wife, she
should slap you back in the same measure, that’s exactly what Tiwa
Savage did. For crying out loud we are Africans and we have a rich
heritage and culture which worked for our parents for centuries. Trying
to be white is what is causing all these rubbish, We women of these day
no longer know our place in a marriage and if we continue like this,
marriage will become obselete soonest and then the family structure will
collapse and that is when the real calamity will begin. even if Tiwa
has made-up her mind to quit her marriage, that should not be a news for
public, talking trash about her husband stealing from her, womanizing, a
drug addict, unstable, not providing for their son Jamil, being
reckless with money blablabla, exposes her immaturity as a wife and
mother. Teebillz needs care and love to heal fast from his suicide
driven brain.
Did TIWA suddenly realized her husband
was a drug addict, let the truth be told she knew he has such characters
and went to alter to say yes I do, why complaining now. Yes the husband
went too extreme with his accusation, Tiwa admitted TJ was unstable
therefore depressed which prompted the tweet, what she should have done
was to thrash out those unbelievable lies rather than exposing the
husband.
The male psyche is a difficult thing to
suppress – even in animals- and women – should try to understand the
male first before the man….that is the only way you can love the man.
unfortunately, in this age, only few women can handle being the
financial captain in relationships albeit temporarily…most women lose
it- and turn to ugly widow spiders and emasculate their men with their
attitude words and actions – it eventually gets ugly. I also wonder what
Tiwa’s mum was doing in their house. Mother in laws of this age are
also disgraceful. Why not leave your children to face their lives. This
is the same thing that happened to Joseph Yobo and he had to go on
instagram and warned Adaeze’s mum to stay away from his house and that
was when peace returned to his home. Unfortunately, Teebillz does not
have money any more so he can ban this strange woman. He made very deep –
comments about Tiwa’s mother… I don’t want to talk about that aspect
because it is spiritual— we need to investigate and ask a lot of
questions at that too.
Both of them share the blame but i will
blame Tiwa more cos she is a disappointment and disgrace to the
persevering spirit (strength) of the woman. Chikina. Remember TJ is
unstable which could be emotional or mentally, if we take mental aspect,
do u think its wise to respond to a mentally unstable suicidal person
like that. Hmmmmm, my dear it’s not easy but wisdom would have been
applied. What solution is public giving them now if not telling them to
divorce, separation of which she could have discussed and seek for
amicably when the marriage became bitter.
All these nonsense may not be the
character of Tee billz before or when she married him, people may argue
Tiwa pushed her husband into such characters which may not be wrong if
examined. I don’t know when and how the marriage started. I don’t side
anyone on this matter, all I am concerned is staying happily or quiting
amicably. The Tiwa video has ruin her husband’s career and even led to
his inescapable suicide. Both need each others support now to heal
God bless the writer... This is awesome, I hope Tiwa reads this.
ReplyDeleteThe writer of this article is a highly male chauvinist who wasn't applying discretion and been objective...I hope u have a mother,sister and daughter to have opened ur mouth and call a female names...pray! pray very hard that a family member of urs doesn't find themselves in similar situation. Then u can now give them ur wonderful admonition..... I rest my case.
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