All people already divided into those,
who are in favour of abortions, and against them. However, it’s not
surprisingly, because not everyone can bring oneself to this step.
Also, not everyone sees the right to judge somebody’s decision.
Whether it’s good or bad, but every woman can individually make a decision – to give a birth to a child or not.
Yet, a practising psychotherapist Tatiana Ohneva-Salvoni explained how actually an abortion can affect a woman’s life after, because obviously, such operation will leave its mark.
1. Influence on couple relationshipsEven
if a decision about making an abortion is mutual, it doesn’t mean that a
couple will absolutely forget about it and live happily ever after.Yet, a practising psychotherapist Tatiana Ohneva-Salvoni explained how actually an abortion can affect a woman’s life after, because obviously, such operation will leave its mark.
The fact that they turned out to be
unprepared to create a family, already shows that there are some
problems which this couple can’t overcome. The trust is harmed, as well
as the confidence in the future.
2. Pangs of conscience Even if you came
to a decision about abortion or already did it, it doesn’t mean, that
you won’t have pangs of conscience. Anyway, you took away a human’s
life.
A human, who was a part of your flesh
and blood. Don’t think, that it won’t leave a mark on your memory. Pangs
of conscience can take you by surprise, but what is done can’t be
undone.
3. Influence of your future children
There happened to be some cases in psychotherapeutic practice, when
children, who were born after their mother once made an abortion, were
growing depressive and couldn’t adapt to the life. As if somehow such
children don’t feel that they should enjoy the life because their
predecessors weren’t destined to come into the world.
4. Neurotic feeling of guilt This
influence differs from pangs of conscience because it’s imposed by
society. A woman feels as if the doctors and surrounding persons condemn
her action, thus she starts feeling guilty towards everyone, who
considers this action as a sin. Again, only you can decide whether to
give a life to a child or not, but you should remember that such action
will leave a mark on your life forever. If you came to a decision to
make an abortion, you should prepare that your life will loose its
bright side for some time.
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