Women who cheat are branded as the devil’s agents, regardless of whether their reasons are ‘legitimate.’
Yes, legitimate.
Yes, legitimate.
Below are 4 legitimate reasons women cheat.
When the se.x is repetitive
Repetition of the same se/x position, in
the same environment, makes the sexual encounter boring; it sucks the
juice out of the act.
Couples can revive their se/x life by subscribing to some variety in se/xual positions.
Out of the box locations are also definitely a great way to spice things up and create some awesome memories.
Having a se.xual encounter in a new
location gets your adrenaline pumping, which helps you get even more
aroused than usual, making those thrilling experiences unforgettable.
Revenge
Some women find it difficult to forgive
after being cheated. For those of you who have been cheated on, you know
how awful it feels: you feel deceived, hurt, angry, sad and even
violated. It also affects your self-esteem.
The very moment you find out that your
man has cheated, your whole body begins to shake, you begin to sweat,
your stomach drops, and you feel nauseated.
The pain and betrayal you feel can inspire infidelity. Cheating then becomes a solution.
But the biggest truth is that cheating
never solves a relationship problem. Communication, assertiveness and
increasing passion and romance are much better solutions.
Loneliness within the marriage
Some women engage in extramarital affairs when they are not given the needed attention and care they desire from their husbands.
Irrespective of how busy one might be at work, spending some intimate moments with your partner is a mandatory responsibility.
Travelling together, having dinners,
going to the movies and doing other things together in romantic ways,
spruces up the relationship and fosters trust.
Some women find solace in other men when
they feel lonely. This isn’t rocket science. And this, as expected, can
lead to cheating and eventually, even divorce; when the bond between
them and their extra-marital/relationship partners deepens.
Feeling under appreciated
Women are always eager to please men when they are in a relationship.
Cooking a romantic dinner, buying sexy
lingerie, and listening with your heart, are just a few ways you may
show your love and appreciation.
However, some men fail to appreciate the tender, loving care bestowed on them by their partners.
We all have thresholds, and once yours
is reached, you may decide to act on a simple “thank you, please,” or a
complex “I love you,” coming from another direction. Let your man know
he may lose you if he continues to take you for granted.
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