2. Abusing and not appreciating is a big
sign someone is losing interest in you. When your partner don’t care
and pet you like before, something is wrong.;
3. Picking fights. Fighting is not
always a bad thing,as it can help to strengthen relationships, if you
can communicate well and avoid pettiness. But constant arguments are a
bad sign, and if you’re the one starting most of them, it’s probably for
a deeper reason than the small things that started each fight. It may
not even be a conscious thing. You might not realize that you’re doing
it because you want out of the relationship. That’s a bad situation, and
unfair to your partner. If the fights are getting worse and more
frequent, it’s time to think about calling it quits.
4. Intimacy lost. Hugs and kisses are
one of the first casualties when someone starts losing interest in their
relationship. The small, intimate things that were always there at the
start just don’t happen as much anymore. It could be the goodnight kiss,
the hand holding, or the hug when you see each other after a long day
at work. If you’re getting bored of the relationship, the absence of
these things is a big giveaway.
5. Bedroom bore. This one seems pretty
obvious, and loss of interest in the bedroom is often a sign that you’re
losing interest. But people’s s*x drives can go up or down for a number
of reasons, from health, to external stress, so this is one to be
careful with. Oftentimes, it’s just when it becomes too routine that you
don’t want s*x as much as you used to. Try changing things up in the
bedroom. Bring in role- play, or dirty talk, explore your fantasies and
kinks. If none of this works, than it may be a larger problem with the
relationship itself.
6. Eyes for others. A very common sign of a tired and stale relationship is wandering eyes – when you start looking at other men or women, or fantasizing about a co-worker. These aren’t necessarily bad things to do, but when it becomes constant, and you stop thinking of your significant other in a se xual light, then it’s time for some self-examination. You don’t have to only have eyes for your partner, but you should at least have them.
7. Non-disclosure. At the start of a relationship, you start confiding a lot in your significant other. This doesn’t necessarily have to be your deep, dark secrets. It may just be a problem you had with your boss or an argument with a family member. It could even be a funny story a co-worker told or just about your day in general. When you stop sharing these seemingly mundane yet crucial things, it could be because you’re tired of the relationship.
6. Eyes for others. A very common sign of a tired and stale relationship is wandering eyes – when you start looking at other men or women, or fantasizing about a co-worker. These aren’t necessarily bad things to do, but when it becomes constant, and you stop thinking of your significant other in a se xual light, then it’s time for some self-examination. You don’t have to only have eyes for your partner, but you should at least have them.
7. Non-disclosure. At the start of a relationship, you start confiding a lot in your significant other. This doesn’t necessarily have to be your deep, dark secrets. It may just be a problem you had with your boss or an argument with a family member. It could even be a funny story a co-worker told or just about your day in general. When you stop sharing these seemingly mundane yet crucial things, it could be because you’re tired of the relationship.
8. A bore. Sometimes there comes a point
in the relationship where you just feel, well, bored. It’s important to
differentiate between boredom in the relationship, and general boredom
in your life. Think hard about it: if you were to break up, would you
start feeling more or less bored? You may just need to work together
with your partner to find ways to break out of your routines. Try new
things, go new places, and spice up your s*x life. But if you feel like a
breakup would cure the boredom, well then that’s what you should do.
There’s usually no going back after you decide to end your relationship,
so think long and hard before you do it. All of these signs are a good
indication that time is up for you, but most of them might have some
other cause. People have a lot of stress in their lives, from work, to
family problems, to health issues. It could just be that one or both of
you are going through a rough patch that will pass. Breaking up is a big
decision, even in a fairly new relationship. It’s not one that should
be taken lightly. But sometimes, it’s something that must be done.
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