There are certain things women will not tolerate during s*x and you will be do well to stay away from doing them.
Most women have a long list of ‘don’ts’ that they want their man to know. So, instead of second guessing, just read this list and read her mind the next time you both are getting intimate.
Most women have a long list of ‘don’ts’ that they want their man to know. So, instead of second guessing, just read this list and read her mind the next time you both are getting intimate.
1. Sloppy music
Music is the clincher as you get set to
hit the sack. As you turn down the lights and turn on a little mood
music, choose what you are making your gal listen to carefully. What you
play may be an indication about where the night is headed. Avoid
anything too girly ( Madonna, Avril Lavigne, Miley Cyrus) and do not
play music with clear sexual overtones (“Let’s Get It On,” “S*xual
Healing,” “I Wanna S*x You Up”).
2. Turn off the phone
Have you ever answered a call mid-way
during s*x and lived to regret it? Turn your phone off while getting
intimate with your lady love. Interruptions can really put a damper on
your s-xual tempo, and if it is your mom calling, your girl is probably
putting on her jacket and getting ready to leave.
3. Groping is out
Well, even though you might want to lay
your hands on your gal, be recommend you exercise caution. Grabbing her
boobs, pinching her ass or ripping open her clothes is a big turn off.
Moving randomly from body part to body part is thoroughly confusing and
never gives your girl a chance to get into the mood. Move slowly from
one body part to the next — lightly caressing first, then with increased
passion.
4. Begging
Most women have clearly defined limits,
before the date about just how how far she is willing to go, but men can
change their minds. At the end of the evening, give her a passionate
kiss to sweep her off her feet. This is when she may just reconsider
going home with you. If she still isn’t interested and expresses a clear
discontent, do not whine or beg. If you beg, you will never get a
second chance –ever.
5. Being in a hurry
Women take a lot of time to feel
s-xually into the moment. Most women loved being kissed, touched,
caressed, and more than two minutes to reach the big O. So take time to
focus on her. If you aren’t satisfying her, she could get frustrated (or
bored) and call it a night.
6. Don’t keep looking at the watch
It takes time to get a woman going. She
needs kissing, touching, caressing, and more than two minutes to reach
orgasm. If you have moved past the make-out stage and the clothes are
coming off, take time to focus on her. If you aren’t satisfying her
needs, your gal may just get frustrated and bored and call it a night.
7. Sloppy kissing
It doesn’t matter how hot a dude is, if
he can’t kiss well, he ain’t getting past first base. When you lean in
for the first end-of-the-date smooch, remember to control your tongue.
Don’t unnecessarily lick her teeth, chin, cheeks, forehead, etc., and
try not to stick it down her throat. It’s a major turn off for women.
Also, ensure you have pleasant breath, bad breath sucks!
8. Dull conversation
All women dig compliments, but too many
“Oh babys” can mar her mood. Going over-the-top with banter is a clear
sign that the conversation is fake and forced. Concentrate on being your
natural self. If things are really becoming passionate, don’t ask
unnecessary questions: “Do you like it when I kiss you?” “Does my hand
feel good on your body?” Her responses will tell you if you are
impressing her enough.
9. Keep your hands off when she’s not in the mood
Women get turned off by men who can’t
keep their hands off them. Do not hand her a glass of wine, turn on some
music, lower the lights and then stick your hand in her pants. You’ll
just be regarded as a horny dude!
10. Asking for permission
Most girls like a man who loves taking
charge, so when you ask for permission every step of the way you come
across as a weak wimp. Asking her “May I please kiss you?” at the end of
a date, or “Are you OK?” when kissing is a major dampner. Rather
analyse the situation; if she’s really into it, be a man and take the
plunge.
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