There are certain uses for the tongue during s*x and as a guy, you can’t but just learn about them for your woman’s sake.
By the time you’re a grown man, you’ve
probably (hopefully) nailed the basic functions that fall under the
category of using your mouth to please a woman. You fancy yourself an
excellent kisser, give o’ral like a self-proclaimed pro and even use
your tongue to probe obvious areas like the nipple or cl!t.
But are you really using your mouth to
its full potential when you’re getting down and dirty? We asked a few
experts to weigh in on the mouth-centric acts that all men should be
readily practicing between the sheets.
Read on for what they had to say about putting the moves where your mouth is.
1. Use It On The Whole Cl!toris
Make sure your mouth is showing some
love to more than just the tip of the cl!t, c’ex therapist Dr. Kat Van
Kirk recommends. “The cl!toris actually extends in a wishbone shape
under the vagina lips,” so be sure to extend your efforts accordingly.
2. Warm Up The Cl!t
Now that you know not to neglect the
whole cl!t, you need to know how to warm it up, so to speak. “For most
women, the cl!toris is really sensitive,” c’ex therapist Vanessa Marin
explains, “and requires extra care when you’re just starting [o’ral].”
Marin says to try keeping your tongue wide and flat, making long, slow
licks from the bottom to the top, lingering on the cl!toris for an extra
second.
3. Give A Rim Job
Analingus is the new cunnilingus, says
c’ex therapist Dr. Kat Van Kirk. “Women are finding how turned on they
get with o’ral anal play.” To give the proper rim job, Dr. Van Kirk says
to use your mouth to bite, lick and suck around the opening of the
bvtthole, then trace your tongue up her crack to kiss her lower back.
Once you go crack you’ll most definitely be back.
4. Tease Properly
There are so many little things you can
do with your mouth to build up to the main event. Instead of going right
down on your lady, psychologist Dr. Rachel Needle suggests that you
tease her by running your lips up and down her inner thigh. “Start with a
little lick here, working down her stomach and up her thighs. Then put
your lips together and gently blow.”
It’s a fact — adding dirty talk to your
c’ex routine leads to longer, harder and more frequent orgasms for your
lady, according to relationship expert and author of Screwing The Rules
Laurel House. “In fact,” House says, “the guy should do 95% of the
talking. It will instantly change your s*x life.”
6. Say What You Want
If you’re a grown-ass man, not only
should you be opening your mouth to tell your partner what she’s doing
right, but also to ask for suggestions on what you could do to make
things even more mind blowing for the both of you. “Express pleasure,
give guidance and ask questions to ensure you’re pleasing her,” says
c’ex expert Elly Klein. “Also (when you’re not having c’ex) you should
talk about what you want in bed to make sure you’re both on the same
page.”
7. Show All Of Her Parts Some Love
When it comes to using your mouth to
show your woman’s body some love, you probably go for the obvious parts:
Her mouth, the nipples, neck and possibly earlobes. But c’ex expert
Elly Klein says that you may be neglecting some pretty important parts.
To avoid skipping out on the spots that might be particularly
pleasurable for her, Klein says to use your mouth to give your girl the
full body experience. “Try kissing her entire back — every inch! She’ll
be putty in your hands.”
8. Graze The Earlobe
It’s pretty crazy how such a small move
can instantly send ripples of pleasure pulsing through your body, but
the earlobe graze does just that. “Sweep your lips over her ear,” says
c’ex expert Angel Snow, “barely touching it to create waves of
goosebumps.”
9. Create Cl!t Suction
Of course, you don’t want to go in on
the cl!t full force right off the bat. But for a grand fellatio finale,
c’ex columnist Lora Somoza says that creating some strong suction around
the cl!t is the best way to put your woman over the edge. “Concentrate
more on gentle suction on the cl!t” she says, “then use strong, flat
steady strokes [with your tongue].”
10. Give A N!pplegasm
When you’re giving the nipple some mouth
action, c’ex expert Angel Snow says to start where your lady’s breast
meets her ribcage. “Stay away from her nipples,” Snow says, “and she’ll
be begging for you to move your mouth to please her there. Many women
can have a ‘nipplegasm’ (an orgasm induced solely from nipple play) when
you tease like this.”
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