A young woman whose love life is simply wrecked by confusing tunes, has cried out for some respite from her agonizing plight.
The lady shared her story showing how her supposed man is playing with her emtions.
Below is what she shared:
I reunited with a family friend via
social media. Through the social media he professes love to me, didn’t
ask me to be his girlfriend but rather asked me to be his wife. He was
in Nigeria and I was in US. When I came back to Nigeria, we stayed
together for couple of months only for him to tell me he doesn’t have
any natural feelings for me.
But this is the same guy that left his
parents and fled with me when there was a misunderstanding between me
and his parents. He said he doesn’t have natural feelings for me but yet
anytime we spend the night together he will call me his wife and we go
intimate and have s*x even though it doesn’t last long and he will claim
that he’s sorry for putting me in the mood. That his current situation
is affecting his performance, but if I turn down his request of going
intimate with him, he feels bad and asks me why?
He said he doesn’t have natural feelings
for me yet he gets upset when he sees me with another guy. He doesn’t
want me to go when I visit him, he sends me on errands on all his
private affairs, complains about my dress sense, my communication skills
(not interacting with his friends when we are out), tries to change me
to his own type of lifestyle (be active in church, socialize).
He also gets upset with me at the
slightest opportunity I mess up. Whenever we communicate 99.9% is filled
with argument and we end up getting angry at each other. The most
painful part is I was warned by friends and his family never to entangle
myself with him. I’m also being told that he’s a chronic womanizer,
even though I know about some other girls he’s dealing with. When ever I
approach him about the matter he will deny it even when the evidence is
clear enough.
Whenever he wrongs me instead of saying sorry he tries to get intimate with me.
Whenever I do him a favor he will
appreciate and later try to go intimate with me. When he’s angry he will
say if that’s the way my mum treats my dad. He says I’m his wife to me
but introduces me to people behind my back as his friend. The last time
we had a misunderstanding he said he loved me so much and those words
came out of anger and not planned.
So please I need advice on how to handle
this. Also does he see me as a tool/fool or does he have natural
feelings for me and he’s just pretending?
About Queen Larbih
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