please help me. I am in deep shit. I was
chatting with my ex over the weekend and I found out that he took nuude
photos of me when we were dating 4 years
ago way back in uniben without my knowledge and he kept them even after we both graduated and had moved on though we chat from time to time.
ago way back in uniben without my knowledge and he kept them even after we both graduated and had moved on though we chat from time to time.
We were just gisting and he asked me to
send him n*de, that he misses me and want to know what my b*obs look
like now. i was shocked. I was like, Are you alright? how dare you ask
for such rubbish and that was when he told me not to worry that my I am
safe that he even had some nuudes of me all these while but the he didn’t
expose them even when I hurt him by breaking up with him. That that was
how much he loved me. That he knew i would leave him someday so he
wanted to have something to remember me by.
To
say that I was shocked that he kept the photos all this while would be
an understatement. I told him that he was bluffing about still having
the photos so I asked him to show me one and he send me an old pix of me
awkwardly nuude and laughing claiming to have many videos and pix,
Honestly, Its been so long and he must have been using his laptop webcam
on me all that while and I didnt know. i knew he was crazy and shit I
never knew he was that sick and obsessed to have taken and kept these
images. i begged and begged him to delete them but he said no and
promised that since the last 4 years that he has kept them safe and that
he loves me too much to ever hurt me. That even if he marries tomorrow
that he will still keep the photos because according to him, they were
not just photos but sweet memories of when he was really happy.
Aunty, since yesterday afternoon, i have
lost my happiness, I have always been bashing people sending nuudes to
boyfriends without knowing that my own nuude library is somewhere in
unknown quantity. i have called him over 100times between yesterday and
now begging him to delete the photos but he is telling me that he still
loves me and cant delete the photos. he knows I am engaged and will soon
settle down so I honestly cannot afford this right now. Please is there
any law against holding someones nuudes against their will? Idot know if
I can get him arrested and I dont know if it will be safer to tell my
fiance before he find out on his own. Its not like he is blackmailing me
but the thought of me nuude in someones laptop is killing me. I have
been moody and cant even concentrate at the office. please can fellow pure9jagisters advise me on a way out of this mess???
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