I have been married for more than 20 years to a man I thought I knew and trusted until the day I found out that he has been keeping another woman on me for a decade.
The affair with the other woman has even produced two children; a set of twins. To make matters worse, the woman in question turned out to be my best friend I shared everything with, including the challenges in my home.
During the time she was pregnant with the twins; she would come to my house and sleep... because it was a very trying period for her. I stood by her throughout and even agreed to her suggestions that the naming ceremony for the twins be done in our house to "cover her shame" as she put it. My husband it was that gave the children the names they answer to till date.
Looking back, I feel like the worst fool on earth. I also recall that my mother-in-law was very angry with me for allowing such an event in my home and practically ordered my friend out of the house a day after the ceremony, with a warning never to come to my house again. I was angry with my mother-in-law for her actions but she told me that I would understand one day.
Until she died, she refused to talk to my husband and begged me on her death bed never to pack out of my home, no matter what.
My sisters-in-law too for reasons I didn’t know then, refused to have anything to do with my husband and kept warning me against the betrayal of friends.
I had gone to celebrate the 10th birthday of the twins with my friend when she called me to know where I was. When I told her, she couldn’t stop her burst of anger at my refusal to terminate the relationship with my so called friend. It was then she told me that the twins were my husband’s children and that my friend has been sleeping with my husband all these years.
It was as if I was in a dream when I confronted my friend and she confirmed it, saying it was the reason she insisted on the naming ceremony taking place in my home and why she allows the children come as frequently as possible so as to be with their father.
She even warned me in my interest not to attempt anything or else I won’t live to tell the story.
Only God can tell how I drove myself home that day. My husband too didn’t bother to deny it, but he kept telling me to forgive that he didn’t know how the relationship started and that he has been trying to get out of it but to no avail. Knowing how vast my friend is when it comes to visiting native doctors and spiritual homes, I knew my husband could be under a spell.
It was after this that my in-laws explained their attitude to me and why they kept warning me to terminate my relationship with her.
When finally my husband went to her to end the relationship, she came to my house to threaten him that since he has decided to stay with me, both of us will never enjoy the marriage again.
The real problem now is that following the suggestions of my eldest sister-in-law we took him to one of the prayer mountains, where it was revealed that my friend was behind the problem. But the solution they proffered is the reason I’m writing you. According to them, she and my husband during sex took an oath never to leave each other and that bedwetting would be the lot of the one who walks away. According to the prophet, I should go and beg her to forgive my husband and pretend to permit them to continue with the relationship to enable my husband use the same means break the curse with the anointing oil they would prepare for him and return her curse back to her.
Two other pastors have told me the same thing and I have also seen it in my dreams. After seeing it in my dream, I went to her to beg her to forgive me, she beat me and drove me out of her house with a stern warning never to attempt coming to her place again.
This is why I need your help. How do I get her to even listen to me?
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