After a weekend spent with a significant other, friend with
benefits, friend with newly discovered benefits, entirely brand new
friend, caught off guard celebrity, stranger posing as a celebrity,
standard stranger or any kind of human in general, our friends often have the same question: Was it good?
standard stranger or any kind of human in general, our friends often have the same question: Was it good?
Over and over, after every se.xual encounter, we get asked this
question. But, what is good? What defines good se.x? Is there only one
kind of good se.x to have?
Absolutely not.
Good se.x can mean so many different things. In fact, it can mean something different for each person experiencing it. T
here is no set number of different kinds of good se.x, but there are a handful a lot of us are probably pretty familiar with.
Here are just a few kinds of good se.x we might experience when we hop into bed/car/designated se.x couch with someone:
When it’s physically good
You’re not necessarily emotionally connected to this person. You’ve
talked and you’ve spent time together, but you’re not really feeling it
on that deeper level.
It could be someone you’ve just met or someone you’ve known for a
while. The se.x is amazing; he’s getting you going in all the right
ways. Physically, you guys have it going on.
After it’s done though, and you’re talking, there’s no connection.
He’s quoting poetry and it should be so romantic, but he’s not making
eye contact.
Later he sends you d*ck pics instead of paragraphs about his dreams.
It’s okay to have se.x without that emotional piece; sometimes we
just want to get off. It’s still good se.x, because physically, it
rocked your world.
Emotionally, though? The morning se.x was great, but he wouldn’t kiss you goodbye.
When it’s emotionally good
Sometimes, it’s exactly the opposite of the physically good kind of
se.x. It’s still good; you felt fulfilled and had a good time.
Physically though, maybe it wasn’t the best you’ve ever had.
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